Is your child showing signs of aggression, is quick to throw a tantrum, or always cries when they do not get their way? You are not alone, as there have been reports of more challenging behavior in young learners all over the country in the wake of the pandemic. Some parents think that very young children should have a free pass if they react poorly in certain situations since they do not know any better. But while expecting kids to act like kids, parents should also look for signs of emotional intelligence in their little ones.
Having emotional intelligence (EQ) at an early age can give children the skills that they need to cope with changes. This awareness also helps them to talk about and manage their feelings. If your child is about to attend daycare or preschool, it is essential to know that your little one will be the one to adjust to these environments and not the other way around. Having a high emotional intelligence will not only result in better learning, but it also means that your child will have an enjoyable experience in these facilities or institutions. Here is what you need to know about emotional intelligence and why it is crucial in early learning environments.
What is Emotional Intelligence?
Most people are familiar with other types of intelligence, such as logical or mathematical skills, musical intelligence, or bodily-kinesthetic intelligence. However, very few know about emotional intelligence and why it plays a significant role in our lives. Emotional intelligence is about being attentive and aware of emotions in yourself and others. Skills tied to emotional intelligence include having the ability to express your emotions appropriately in particular situations – knowing how to do so can be the key to success in different aspects of life, such as in your career and relationships.
Why Should We Foster Emotional Skills in Young Children?
Fostering emotional skills in young people can benefit their childhood and adult life. According to studies, children with high EQs earn better grades and make healthier life choices. Moreover, kids with higher EQs are exemplary leaders in the classroom, and they tend to get along well with their classmates. They also know how to navigate complex social situations and build meaningful and lasting friendships.
As a child grows, signs of emotional intelligence in an adolescent or teen include making the right decisions, such as finishing homework instead of watching TV all night. It also means being able to take on responsibilities at home or a part-time job while maintaining family relationships and friendships. Also, providing emotional well-being and building an environment that promotes round development in children.
Strengthening a Child’s Emotional Skills
Can a child be taught emotional skills, or do these skills develop independently? Most educators agree that teaching social and emotional skills is possible, but parents should not leave all the work to the teachers. Before entering daycare or preschool, social-emotional learning can be done at home using different methods.
For instance, you can teach your child to be responsible and respect their environment by teaching them to make their bed, clean up spills, keep their belongings in order, and dispose of garbage correctly.
You can also tell your child stories about the importance of sharing and taking turns. Let them practice at home by sharing toys and books with a sibling, and encourage them to take turns when talking.
Encouraging self-expression should also be a priority when helping your child to develop emotional intelligence. For instance, if they are sad, do not belittle their feelings or advise them not to cry. Instead, provide them with a safe environment wherein they can express themselves without feeling judged, so let them talk about their feelings to help them understand them. If they cannot express it in words, try art activities or let them depict their feelings through dance.
Modeling positive behavior is also crucial to helping your child strengthen their emotional skills. Show your little one how to listen to others and work through conflicts without shouting or other negative behaviors. When they see you respond to certain situations in a patient and healthy manner, they will likely do the same in school.
Emotional intelligence can be the key to your child’s success and happiness. Foster social-emotional skills at an early age, and see how it helps to make your child thrive in daycare or preschool.
Sandra Chiu works as Director at LadyBug & Friends Daycare and Preschool.